Sometimes I Hate It

We shouldn't be surprised that we sometimes hate being in chastity.

Yesterday and today I'm just not feeling it. It's not that I'm particularly horny but I just want this thing off.

It will take some self discipline and I think my pride will make me stick it out.

Horny and Dripping

I Forgot

I was driving around this afternoon busy with “things” and a thought struck me: “Am I wearing my cage?”

Of course, I was but I’m so used to it that I had to feel for it to be sure.

OK, is that strange?

Cagednutmegs

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Please feel free to visit.

Horny all night

Woke up three times with attempted erection pulling on my balls. And I'm still horny this morning.

While it's great to feel those hard-ons being held down, after a while my cock and balls are a bit sore.

In a Hurry

Well, I had a lot of coffee this morning and went to the mall for some shopping. Had to go. Didn't want to go into the stalls and sit to pee. One of the problems with the Jailbird is that sometimes the cage gets twisted around and the penis along with it. Anyway, I had to go badly and just walked up to the urinal, opened my fly and pulled my cage through the y-front of my boxer briefs and let go.

I knew something was wrong as soon as I felt something warm and wet going down my left leg. 

I've made this mistake before but not in such a public place.  Do you think anyone noticed?

A Couple of Days, Really Horny

Just a couple of days locked and I'm very horny. Maybe it's the warmer weather, but it's probably the fact that I had some orgasms Saturday and miss them now.

And we're back

Back locked in my Jailbird. Had a nice Saturday with 3 cums: one ruined and two regular. I did manage to clean out the pipes.

But I'm locked up now and my cock doesn't like it. It likes to be hard.

It pays to advertise

Ruined

After being locked for about 2 weeks, I unlocked and wanted a nice big orgasm.

I went online a started looking at some hot gay porn. I like to wrap a piece of rope around my nuts and pull gently.

I just a few minutes I could feel an orgasm building so I backed off.

But it was too late and two weeks of cum leaked out. Not very satisfying. I'll try again later.

What do you want?

A brief poll for my readers:

What do you want to see me blog?

1. Advice on choosing a chastity cage and wearing it
2. Photos of me in my cage
3. My feelings and experiences wearing a cage
4. Other

Please reply in the comments. 💓

Boxers or Briefs

When I'm in my chastity cage, I usually prefer to wear my boxer briefs or my bikini briefs. It gives me more support and I get fewer problems with skin irritation or discomfort. On the other hand, when I wear my Mature Metal Jailbird, I can feel the cage swinging around in my boxers. Not so much when I wear my Holy Trainer in boxers.

Of course, this is a matter of personal preference and I must admit that I usually wear boxer briefs when I'm not locked.

As always, your comments are most welcome.

Why do I do what I do?

I've read a few blog posts recently and I'm reading a book about coming out later in life that have me thinking (again) about chastity. Why do I do it?

Is is because I'm a sub at heart? Was I born this way (gay sub)?

Am I a control freak? Do I want to control my sexuality? Am I ashamed? Do I want to punish myself?

Is it because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist? Like a tattoo or a leather collar?

I don't know. What's your reason?

Less is More

I've noticed that I feel less discomfort if I use little or no lube on my ring. It seems counter-intuitive, but it's true. Maybe I'm just getting to the point where my body is getting used to the cage?

"Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight"

I don't know if I've mentioned this on this blog before, but I led a straight life for many years--up until I was in my later 40s. I was married and had children. Growing up in the 50s in a religious home didn't offer a lot of options. The short version was I always knew inside that I was gay, I thought I could keep it controlled. At some point I couldn't live the lie.

There's a whole lot more to the story, but I was told about a new book, "Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight" written by Lauren Olsen, MD. Lauren is a psychologist who came out later in life and has studied men who have similar stories. I think there are lots of us. We don't all have the same story: some come out sooner and some never come out.

I'm not finished with the book and I'll be happy to give a full report once I've digested it. But I like to so far.

Dawn's Early Light

I must be feeling better. I woke up this morning to a nice attempted hardon with a dribble of precum.

Glum

It's pouring rain, cold, my throat is sore, I went to a wake yesterday, I ache....

"Sounds" rather scary

A while back I purchased a short "knock off" metal cage with a urethral plug. It looks like this:

 

I was inspired by "Thumper" who has used these types of cages and loves the feel of something moving around inside your cock. See a review of one by Thumper.

The problem is that the urethral plug is too large for my urethra. I've thought about getting something to widen my urethra. They make a variety of urethral sounds for this very purpose. See here. 

Is this the next frontier? Should I try it? (your replies would be much appreciated?)

Nice Fit (photo fixed)

 Me in my JailBird: 45mm ring, 1.75 inch cage, special screw from Mature Metal lock.

Three weeks this time

Certainly not my record, not even half way there. But I wanted to feel my cum dripping down my cock. It felt good, but I think I'll lock up again this evening.

How long should I stay locked this time?

Spring?

I've been suffering from this cold for two weeks. It's been a chest cold with a bad cough. I've been miserable.

It's April 1st (Happy April Fool's Day!) and it snowed here last night. Cruel!

The good news is that I slept for about 10 hours last night and woke up feeling a bit better. I hope I'm on the downhill part of the cold. I even felt a bit of an attempted erection this morning. Of course, it was stifled in my cage, but that's more than I've felt in a long time.