Buzzing your Prostate using your Phone

Well, not exactly.

As I mentioned a few posts ago (and I am sorry that I've been away for so long), I purchase a Hush butt plug. It touts itself as the world's first teledildonic butt plug. I'm pretty sure that's not a real word, but whatever.

The base has a bluetooth receiver built into the base which connects to your phone (android or iphone). You can control the vibrations via an app on the phone.

This now opens up a whole world of opportunity (literally). You can control the device yourself or you can have someone on another phone nearby control the buttplug. You (or someone else) controls the intensity of the vibrations and you can download patterns, sync to music or let someone control your plug over the internet!

It comes in 2 sizes--I purchased the smaller because I'm a wuss, but it is about right for me.

It can stay in your butt for quite a while, between one and two hours. I have managed to thoroughly enjoy the Hush. My prostate leaks like a bad faucet with it in. With the right penile stimulation, I was able to achieve a ruined orgasm. And I mean ruined: I didn't feel any shooting, the cum just dribbled out. I was so focused on the vibration on my prostate and boi-cunt, I didn't notice the orgasm, I just felt the cum dribbling down my little dicklet.

I had some problems with the server, but that seems resolved.

I'd give it 4 stars.  We live in amazing times!

I really needed that

I haven't received my Hush remote controlled butt plug yet and I thought I would get in the mood by using my Aneros prostate massager.

I've been using it before I go to bed. Not for long, maybe 30-60 minutes. I usually get a bit of  precum from using the Aneros. But last night, wow. I felt like I was going to break out of my cage and I was leaking a ton.

I should have take a picture. I guess almost 3 weeks had my prostate full.

Hush, Hush, Sweet Charlotte

I love getting new toys, particularly sex toys. Not that I have a lot.

I ordered a Lovense Hush anal plug. (click here) and I can't wait for it to arrive.

What makes this special is that it is remotely controlled. It uses a smartphone app. Talk about the internet of things.

You can also give control to someone else!  Maybe I'll let one of my followers have a try. Anyone interested?

Holy Trainer

Sometimes I Hate It

We shouldn't be surprised that we sometimes hate being in chastity.

Yesterday and today I'm just not feeling it. It's not that I'm particularly horny but I just want this thing off.

It will take some self discipline and I think my pride will make me stick it out.

Horny and Dripping

I Forgot

I was driving around this afternoon busy with “things” and a thought struck me: “Am I wearing my cage?”

Of course, I was but I’m so used to it that I had to feel for it to be sure.

OK, is that strange?

Cagednutmegs

I've also started a tumblr, http://cagednutmegs.tumblr.com/

Please feel free to visit.

Horny all night

Woke up three times with attempted erection pulling on my balls. And I'm still horny this morning.

While it's great to feel those hard-ons being held down, after a while my cock and balls are a bit sore.

In a Hurry

Well, I had a lot of coffee this morning and went to the mall for some shopping. Had to go. Didn't want to go into the stalls and sit to pee. One of the problems with the Jailbird is that sometimes the cage gets twisted around and the penis along with it. Anyway, I had to go badly and just walked up to the urinal, opened my fly and pulled my cage through the y-front of my boxer briefs and let go.

I knew something was wrong as soon as I felt something warm and wet going down my left leg. 

I've made this mistake before but not in such a public place.  Do you think anyone noticed?

A Couple of Days, Really Horny

Just a couple of days locked and I'm very horny. Maybe it's the warmer weather, but it's probably the fact that I had some orgasms Saturday and miss them now.

And we're back

Back locked in my Jailbird. Had a nice Saturday with 3 cums: one ruined and two regular. I did manage to clean out the pipes.

But I'm locked up now and my cock doesn't like it. It likes to be hard.

It pays to advertise

Ruined

After being locked for about 2 weeks, I unlocked and wanted a nice big orgasm.

I went online a started looking at some hot gay porn. I like to wrap a piece of rope around my nuts and pull gently.

I just a few minutes I could feel an orgasm building so I backed off.

But it was too late and two weeks of cum leaked out. Not very satisfying. I'll try again later.

What do you want?

A brief poll for my readers:

What do you want to see me blog?

1. Advice on choosing a chastity cage and wearing it
2. Photos of me in my cage
3. My feelings and experiences wearing a cage
4. Other

Please reply in the comments. 💓

Boxers or Briefs

When I'm in my chastity cage, I usually prefer to wear my boxer briefs or my bikini briefs. It gives me more support and I get fewer problems with skin irritation or discomfort. On the other hand, when I wear my Mature Metal Jailbird, I can feel the cage swinging around in my boxers. Not so much when I wear my Holy Trainer in boxers.

Of course, this is a matter of personal preference and I must admit that I usually wear boxer briefs when I'm not locked.

As always, your comments are most welcome.

Why do I do what I do?

I've read a few blog posts recently and I'm reading a book about coming out later in life that have me thinking (again) about chastity. Why do I do it?

Is is because I'm a sub at heart? Was I born this way (gay sub)?

Am I a control freak? Do I want to control my sexuality? Am I ashamed? Do I want to punish myself?

Is it because I'm a bit of an exhibitionist? Like a tattoo or a leather collar?

I don't know. What's your reason?

Less is More

I've noticed that I feel less discomfort if I use little or no lube on my ring. It seems counter-intuitive, but it's true. Maybe I'm just getting to the point where my body is getting used to the cage?

"Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight"

I don't know if I've mentioned this on this blog before, but I led a straight life for many years--up until I was in my later 40s. I was married and had children. Growing up in the 50s in a religious home didn't offer a lot of options. The short version was I always knew inside that I was gay, I thought I could keep it controlled. At some point I couldn't live the lie.

There's a whole lot more to the story, but I was told about a new book, "Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight" written by Lauren Olsen, MD. Lauren is a psychologist who came out later in life and has studied men who have similar stories. I think there are lots of us. We don't all have the same story: some come out sooner and some never come out.

I'm not finished with the book and I'll be happy to give a full report once I've digested it. But I like to so far.

Dawn's Early Light

I must be feeling better. I woke up this morning to a nice attempted hardon with a dribble of precum.

Glum

It's pouring rain, cold, my throat is sore, I went to a wake yesterday, I ache....

"Sounds" rather scary

A while back I purchased a short "knock off" metal cage with a urethral plug. It looks like this:

 

I was inspired by "Thumper" who has used these types of cages and loves the feel of something moving around inside your cock. See a review of one by Thumper.

The problem is that the urethral plug is too large for my urethra. I've thought about getting something to widen my urethra. They make a variety of urethral sounds for this very purpose. See here. 

Is this the next frontier? Should I try it? (your replies would be much appreciated?)

Nice Fit (photo fixed)

 Me in my JailBird: 45mm ring, 1.75 inch cage, special screw from Mature Metal lock.

Three weeks this time

Certainly not my record, not even half way there. But I wanted to feel my cum dripping down my cock. It felt good, but I think I'll lock up again this evening.

How long should I stay locked this time?

Spring?

I've been suffering from this cold for two weeks. It's been a chest cold with a bad cough. I've been miserable.

It's April 1st (Happy April Fool's Day!) and it snowed here last night. Cruel!

The good news is that I slept for about 10 hours last night and woke up feeling a bit better. I hope I'm on the downhill part of the cold. I even felt a bit of an attempted erection this morning. Of course, it was stifled in my cage, but that's more than I've felt in a long time.

Finally Out

I wasn't always "out." Although I have to admit I have always been gay, I was in denial and didn't come out until I was in my late 40s. I was married at the time and to say that it was a "turning point" in my life would be an understatement.

I'm not the only one. I've met other men who have been in the same situation. Particularly men who grew up in the fifties and sixties.

Oddly enough, I got a text from my ex-wife telling me to listen to the local PBS station. There was a segment about married men who come out later in life. One of the guests was a psychologist and author who write a book on the subject, Finally Out: Letting Go of Living Straight.

I put the book on order and I'll review it once I've read it.

Retired

No, I'm not retired from chastity.

I'm mostly retired from my job, although I've been basically self-employed. I have shed most of my clients. It feels wonderful. I feel the need every once a while to shake up my life. Try some new things, or things I've wanted to concentrate on, including this blog.

Cough, Cough, Cold, Sniffle

Nasty chest cold... Ugh.

I switched back to my JailBird, although I don't feel the desire to do anything other than have a cup of cinnamon tea... and maybe a ginger snap.

A Look Back at the Holy Trainer

I've been using my JailBird from Mature Metal for the past few months, but thought I would go back into my Holy Trainer for a few days. I've forgotten how comfortable the ring is on the HT. The tube is a solid plastic and, unlike the JailBird which is an open "cage" of metal bars, there is noticeably less sensation on the penis in the Holy Trainer than the JailBird.

Of course, the disadvantage to the solid tube is that it needs more frequent cleaning. I can usually go three days before I need to take it off and clean it. I can go much longer in the JailBird, maybe a week.

Here's a link to my last review of the Holy Trainer.

The New Normal

I started this blog in 2011. That means I'm at least five years into chastity. I haven't been locked for the whole five years, but I think that the longest I've been unlocked is a month.

I haven't had a keyholder during that time. In some ways I think being self-locked is more of a challenge to my self control.

However, the sub in me would like to be at least responsible to a keyholder, perhaps an online keyholder, even if it is another locked sub.

Freedom Isn't All It's Cracked Up To Be

Took off the Jailbird Saturday and put it back on Monday. It was a five week lockup and thought I would really enjoy my orgasms.

Well, the reality was not so great. My first orgasm, if you want to call it that, was really a ruined orgasm. Not really wanted it that way but everything just spilled out with a rather weak orgasm that was unsatisfying, to say the least.

I next tried again about 10 hours later. A bit better but no fireworks. Later that night I tried and just couldn't get a lasting erection. I was tired and I just think my dick isn't used to being erect. Maybe my orgasm muscles are atrophying?

Near the end of week 5

I'm coming to the end of my 5 week run of chastity. My original plan was to go two weeks and I've extended it to five. I've had some ebb and flow of hormones. I've been so horny, I wanted to cheat and other times, I could care less. Today, I'm horny.

My record is 7 weeks (actually 50 days). I'm within striking distance of breaking that record. Should I go for it or "clean our the pipes"? If I get a reply to this post before Saturday evening telling me to keep on my cage, I'll do it. My cock is in your hands. (I wish!)

Blue Balls

Three times last night I awoke with my cock trying to erect but being firmly controlled by my Jailbird. I usually like the feeling but the 5AM erection was awful. My balls have ached all day and the ring is so tight, it hurts too.

I have to take the cage off for a dermatologist appointment tomorrow morning. Maybe I'll put on the HT2 for a few days.

In the locker room

I wore my Jailbird cage again to the pool. This time the locker room was very busy. I had no choice but to change in front of about 6 guys. One black guy had a good look. His eyes bugged out. Later in the pool, he smiled at me.

I wonder if I should strike up a conversation with him next time?

Leaking and Swimming

Two things to report.

I've been locked up for the past month and the past two weeks have been rather horny. I've had several nights with nocturnal emissions. Not particularly messy but I woke up wet. I frequently have attempted erections that are trapped by my Jailbird. I love it.

I've been swimming for exercise. I thought I would take a chance and not remove my cage before going to the pool. I wore it without problem. Nobody noticed. A bit of a thrill.